Below is a link to a vignette that really struck a chord with me (Cathy). There is a lot to learn about the etiquette of texting. According to Maralee McKee, “out attention is a gift.”
McKee also says,
Our full attention is the foundation of every kindhearted, other-centered interaction. Texting alters the continuity, focus, and momentum of our encounters.
It produces anxiety (mild to severe) in the other person, and whether they’re telling you (or even aware of it themselves) or not, they’re attention is apt to desire to focus on someone who pays them back equally.
These are big matters.
If we’re not being careful, texting can hurt our family, our friendships, our business relationships, even our ability to govern.
In the vignette a father makes his point to his sons the ‘old fashaoined way’. Enjoy.